The concept of "male arousal" can be viewed from two perspectives: strong situational (temporary) sexual desire, which, if not implemented, leads to painful feelings and sexual desire. persistent increase (satiriasis, hypersexuality). In the second case, the permanent sexual arousal does not disappear after ejaculation and significantly reduces the quality of life: the man cannot concentrate on any activity, anxiety, depression. Such hysteria is, in fact, similar to priapism - an unreasonable erection that is painful and does not subside after ejaculation. The reasons can be both physiological and psychological.
Causes and symptoms of hysteria
In young men, often experiencing excessive sexual agitation, spontaneous ejaculation is normal, due to increased testosterone levels. This is called pubertal hysteria. The main symptoms are:
- Sensation of genital enlargement ("vibrating eggs");
- Increased sensitivity of erosion zones;
- Fever, sweating;
- Frequent urination, often accompanied by pain in the lower abdomen and lower back.
Urologists usually don't pay much attention to complaints of hysteria if they come from younger patients. Doctors send them to a psychologist, but only in case they prescribe testing for genital infections.
Increased abnormality can be congenital (primary) or acquired. Congenital anomalous forms can be associated with diseases of the central nervous system, endocrine disorders and mental disorders. The acquired form is divided into physiological and pathological. In the first case, the increased sex drive can be caused by stress or by high levels of testosterone in the blood.
The pathological form, as a rule, develops against the background of organic pathologies of the central nervous system. They are provoked by:
- Nerve infection (encephalitis, meningoencephalitis).
- Head injury.
- Vascular damage and brain tumors.
- Intoxication due to alcohol or drug use.
Hypersexuality in adulthood can be caused by an endocrine disorder - an excess of stress hormone or testosterone (due to the function of the testes or the adrenal cortex).
Hypersexuality of a neurotic nature develops on the basis of self-compassion, lack of confidence in men's ability to pay. The constant desire for sex in this case is an unconscious attempt to prove to yourself and others that there is nothing wrong with an intimate life.
Increased erectile dysfunction of a neurotic nature can occur in men of retirement age during a period of decline in sexual function. In this case, the reason was a subconscious desire to "stay in the ranks", to make up for what might have been lacking in his youth.
The difference between normal and pathological lust
The line between hysteria caused by an intense sexual state and arousal by a medical condition is arbitrary. Some men need sex every day and more than once. It is normal if the process brings joy and satisfaction, and professional, creative and social functioning is not affected (the evolving structure of needs). In this case, we can talk about a high level of vital energy, not about pathological overexertion.
Natural primary heterosexuality may be due to a genetic trait. Men whose fathers were sexually active are more likely to follow in their footsteps.
Satyriasis is an obsessive sexual need that is almost impossible to get rid of. Over time, such men are prone to sexual perversions, as ordinary relationships become too tasteless for them. Almost no time is devoted to other aspects of life. Such hysteria can be imaginary or manic. The latter form is much more difficult to correct.
The physiological symptoms of hypersexuality in adult males are similar to those of puberty:
- Prolonged erection even from a fleeting, imaginary erotic image;
- Premature ejaculation;
- A pulling sensation in the lower abdomen.
A significant difference between pathological and normal is that men with a strong hypogonadism can quickly switch to other types of activities (work, daily life) as soon as their fertility needs are satisfied. sexual reasoning. Pathological hysteria causes you to immediately seek out new possibilities for intercourse.
Testicular agitation and pain
Testicular pain due to lack of sexual stimulation occurs in many men, not necessarily due to excessive desire. The level of discomfort is different for each person. The pain can be so severe that it is difficult for the man to walk. It is due to too much blood to the genitals leading to compression of the nerve endings. Simply letting the patient relax, or using anesthetic or antispasmodic drugs, is sufficient.
The cause of pain when exercising too much can be due to varicocele or genital infection, the activity weakens the testicular tissues, disrupting their normal structure. If symptoms occur frequently, you should consult a urologist.
If, with excessive exertion, discomfort in the groin is already clearly felt, then masturbation or sex will not provide any relief. Conversely, orgasm can be fuzzy and ejaculation can be very painful. The pain will appear in about two hours, and in some men, the pain won't go away for several days. You can relieve discomfort with aspirin. Peppermint infusion will help relax smooth muscles.
The only way to stop the pain is to avoid overstimulation. If you have a date without intimacy, but sexual feelings cannot be ruled out, it is better to ejaculate first. It sounds weird, but this option is better than it was then because you have to "go back" to experiencing hours of acute pain that shuts down normal life.
Other problems of mania
Increased anxiety in men, not being able to control the level of sex drive can become a serious problem. With any provocation, even in public, an erection occurs, which is difficult to conceal.
Often absurd situations arise: excessive sexual excitement during foreplay (often accompanied by the secretion of lubricant from Cooper's glands) ends with the penis slipping out during sex or ejaculating. premature ejaculation even before sex.
Crazy makes you unable to focus on important matters at work. Such men are not able to focus attention, show initiative, which is why they often lose promising jobs.
How to get rid of obsessive mania?
Treatment of hysteria depends on the cause. Physiological factors should be eliminated first. To do this, you should start with an examination with a urologist, make sure that there are no pathologies of the reproductive system, check the level of hormones. A neurologist (neurologist) will help identify problems with the brain and spinal cord.
Psychosexual sexologists deal with psychosexual hysteria. You can only help the patient if they themselves are aware of the problem and want to get rid of it. The choice of methods depends on how rich a man's intimate life is, what ways he can enjoy it, apart from sex, what efforts he is willing to make to regulate it. treat. If the patient cannot concentrate and contact a psychologist, people use hypnosis. In parallel with psychotherapeutic methods, if necessary, antidepressants, tranquilizers, sleeping pills will be prescribed.
What to do at home?
Sexual excitement can haunt from morning to night. If hysteria is not caused by a physical illness, you can try the following methods to ease your hysteria:
- Take a cool shower, empty your bladder, or go about your daily activities. It must be remembered that morning erection is a normal phenomenon, a sign of the absence of vascular impotence.
- Take advantage of every free time during the day. Endurance training (moderate cardio, low-weight repetitions) can help reduce sexual tension. In contrast, exercises with heavy weights, the squat, which work together and raise the legs, will lead to genital activation.
- Before going to bed, it is recommended to take a sedative so that psycho-emotional activity begins to slow down.
You can try to cope with hysteria with the help of decoctions of sedative herbs or medicinal preparations. It is important to consider that such funds, especially valerian, begin to work only after a few days of regular use (cumulative effect).
If hypersexuality is caused by alcohol or drugs, then if the bad habit is not broken, the condition will be irreversible. You can help your body get rid of harmful substances by taking sorbents.
Conclusion
The state of extreme excitement, intensity is much worse than decreased sex drive. In the second case, many men lead a full social life, achieve success in professional activities, not much concerned with lack of sex. Dependence on it leaves a person emotionally (and subsequently physically) disabled. True lust rarely develops. Essentially, men themselves nurture in their minds the need to enter into sex. Those thoughts are implanted by a certain information environment, a certain environment. Experts believe that the higher a person's level of intellectual development and work level, the less likely they are to develop mental addiction.